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Pieces of My Peace and My Pain- A Poetry Page

I’ve only ever found peace in pieces, and the same for pain. To truly experience one, you need the other.

Pieces of My Peace and My Pain A Poetry Page

Lies and Lilac

I planted my lies under the lilac bush 
And the lies grew taller than me
The sage bush wilted
My self-esteem melted
Destroying my memory
Introspected
Disconnected
Regulation was nowhere to be found
Deeper the voices
Harder the choices
I screamed but heard no sound
In circles I spun out
Kicked all the fun out
Started again all alone
Reborn in the summer
Got older
Felt younger
Finally found peace in my bones

If I’d…

If I had to do it over
If I had to start again
I'd fight less with my mother
I'd still see my best friend
I'd write a few more stories
I'd tell a couple truths
I'd sit in my own glory
I'd become my own muse
I'd meditate a little longer
I'd sleep in til three or four
I'd work out to just be stronger
I'd maybe gain a couple more
I'd learn a little quicker
I'd follow a few more dreams
I'd drink a lot less liquor
I'd smoke a lot less weed
I'd forgive a little sooner
I'd care a little less
I'd do what sets my soul on fire
I'd chase this lightness in my chest
I'd open my mind a little younger
I'd give more compassion to my heart
I'd answer that phone call from my brother
I'd forgive my shadow parts
If I had to do it all again
If I had to do this over
I'd give myself a little grace
And I'd move a little slower

2025

I thought I'd keep this simple
Cuz Life is such a grind
My only goal for this year
Is to not lose my fucking mind
Sorry for the expletive
I should resolve to no longer curse
To have no fear or panic
When the worst case gets worse
Or to have the ability to calm down
When triggered by a call
When tested by society
Will I stand down or stand tall
Maybe I've fallen off the track
I'll set my goals a little higher
I'll sleep in past five am
I'll listen when my bones are tired
I'll go off the beaten path
I'll set my goals a little lower
I'll take a week instead of a day off
I'll read my books a little slower
I won't open Instagram or Facebook
I won't light a cigarette
I won't take two shots to ease the pain
I won't live in regret
I won't numb out on Xanax
I won't starve myself
I won't buy more self-help books
Just to decorate the shelf
I won't force fake smiles
For people who treat me like shit
I won't promise to be there
I won't overcommit
I put down my heavy burdens
I'll put down my shame
I'll keep my head up and my shoulders back
I'll proudly speak my name
I'll braid the hair of my shadow parts
I'll dance with my inner child
I'll sing with the thousand women within me
As I continue to re-wild
I'll transmute all judgment
I'll let my energy alchemize
Apprehension to Abundance
A fearless 2025

The Voices In My Head

The voices in my head 
Tell me I'm a piece of shit
They told me I was ugly
Starting at the age of six
They told me I was fat
And then they said too thin
They told me I was hated
By all my closest friends
As I got older, they got meaner
My thoughts were so unkind
I was never in a more unsafe place
Than my own dangerous mind
They told me I was all alone
These voices that I heard
They said I could never be forgiven
For those crooked lines I blurred
"You're such a disappointment!"
The words cut like tiny knives
I'm a human, I made mistakes
"NO! I don't want to end my life!"
The voices said there's no forgiveness
But there's gotta be a way
Sobbing in the mirror
I heard "Crystal, you're okay"
I looked up and saw my swollen eyes
My cries turned into screams
I begged GUS to forgive me
And change my prophecy
"God, Universe, Spirit"
These words came from my mouth
"Am I allowed to drop my shame?
Can I start to heal this now?"
I'm tired of hating my own body
I'm sick of questioning my mind
Strangled with neglect, abandoned
Unheld by the ties that bind
"It's okay if they leave you
But stop abandoning yourself
Pour half of that love back into YOU
That you pour into everybody else."
A splash of ice cold water
I washed the shame off my face
From that very moment
I gave myself some grace
The voices in my head
Can still be a little cruel
My mind is like a fire
My thoughts are like the fuel
My tongue is like a weapon
So when my thoughts are mean
I tend to stay to myself
So I can't hurt anyone but me
Now when the voices talk to me
I speak back to them with love
They're just my shadow pieces
That don't think I'm good enough

What Mama Never Healed From

Was this passed down like brown hair is
This inner feeling of dread
Is what Mama never healed from
Dancing in my head
When I can't let someone touch me
Without wanting to burn my skin
Is that a recoil from her trauma score
Did it work its way in
Did I get this scar from in the womb
Is this her pain, not mine
A feeling of transference
There's trauma in my bloodline
"Did you give this to me Mama?"
The twisting in my chest
The doctors called in anxiety
I thought Mama knew best
"Trust absolutely no one!"
"Watch this Lifetime movie."
For a woman scared of everything
How'd she miss what happened to me?
"Did you build this in me, Mama?"
This magnet for abuse and pain
Or was it all in my head
"Mama, did you make me insane?"
Am I repeating all her cycles now
Am I just a part of mamas story
Can I still change the path I'm on
Was this never meant for Me
Am I allowed to heal this now
I want that for me AND you
Can she see how strong I am
"Mama, did you give this to me too?"

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